tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post2944974878146350540..comments2014-01-02T11:54:42.766-08:00Comments on My Journey to Healing Birth: My Homebirth Loss: The BirthMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16326850425290860549noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post-51818044939606558692012-07-05T09:36:59.400-07:002012-07-05T09:36:59.400-07:00Hey Katrina, how's that Google U degree workin...Hey Katrina, how's that Google U degree working out for you? The human mind really IS a powerful thing... it can convince them of their own rightness from a distance, and with such convincing new idols to worship, falsely labeled "logic", incorrectly branded as "science", under the sway of more mere mortals claiming to know it all. <br /><br />If you want to see how hospitals are saving babies, read Tatia's story. http://tatia.org/<br /><br />Read books, like Pushed, or like Born in the USA. <br /><br />Now you go worship your god and we'll worship ours. Being convinced in your superiority and trying to force it upon others, history has shown, only achieves war. Ask yourself what your actual motives are, here. We will continue doing what we feel is safest for our bodies and babies, but don't come here and attempt to plant your flag in our ass in the name of "safety". <br /><br />Don't forget... some of us used to believe in your way being safest, and most responsible. It wasn't until life gave us a huge dose of reality that we realized we had been had. That's the funny thing about being "logical"... reality sometimes disagrees.<br /><br />Logic is a million books by experts telling you the sky is green. Reality is believing that all your life, but then seeing for yourself that the sky is actually blue.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post-64376435507673425112012-07-04T11:49:39.566-07:002012-07-04T11:49:39.566-07:00I love how people who follow Amy T. suddenly becom...I love how people who follow Amy T. suddenly become experts and become a medical examiner via the interwebz and then come to my blog and tell me how wrong I am for how I feel about MY birth and MY loss. <br /><br />Babies can (and do) die in any birth setting. There are a million things that can go wrong in one split second that will have the same outcome, hospital or not. <br /><br />As for "risk" well that is a relative idea anyway. What *you* define as risk will not equal my definition of risk. I am not a medical professional nor am I giving medical advise as one. I am just a mom of 6 who ( as is described in my about section) wanted to keep a public journal of my birth experiences. <br /><br />Thank you though, for the psychological evaluation Dr. Google.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16326850425290860549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post-82103405182523822232012-07-04T11:09:56.910-07:002012-07-04T11:09:56.910-07:00I suppose that if you have religious reasons for s...I suppose that if you have religious reasons for sticking with a belief, then no logical response to that will change it. Our minds really are that powerful. What your mind couldn't do is save this situation, since you were not a trained OBGYN. Neither are EMTs, which is why no EMT would advise you to allow them to be your primary birth attendant. It should have been an OBGYN in a trained hospital. It would be one thing if you admitted your illogical thinking and the severe consequences of your decisions, but to post this online will possibly encourage others to homebirth and risk their babies dying unnecessarily too.<br /><br />For me it was helpful to see that because of your religious beliefs, you were not interested in knowing about the true risk to your baby. So as a person who feels very passionately about informing women of information so that they can make an informed decision, I understand that you don't really *want to know.*<br /><br />KatrinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post-82554076083192729042011-10-22T00:45:07.017-07:002011-10-22T00:45:07.017-07:00My friend informed me yesterday, and received conf...My friend informed me yesterday, and received confirmation today, that the tumor that grows in the brain of her 4yo niece will kill this beautiful little girl in an estimated 1yr. Today I told her that we must pray, but most importantly, God blessed her family with this beautiful child for a reason, no matter how long her stay on this Earth, in the physical form, may be. Your son was a beautiful gift given to you for a moment, to bless your life in an amazing way. Thank you for sharing. I admire your strength and courage.Jaxgarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06026623413484770450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3416221592132574430.post-89748016006208934772011-10-21T20:41:52.237-07:002011-10-21T20:41:52.237-07:00Michelle,
I remember your birth story. You have s...Michelle,<br /><br />I remember your birth story. You have shared this story with a select few, but were forced to erase your words due to the evil comments of disgusting people. Please do not ever erase this because of the harsh words of people that do not mean anything to you. You know that this was Allah's plan and have made peace, even if it still hurts. <br /><br />You are one of the most amazing women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and I admire your strength. Please, never stop writing. Keep your faith strong. <br /><br />I know that I have said it so many times but, I'm so sorry for your loss. I was with you through your pregnancy, and I remember waiting with anticipation for the news of birth only to be devastated along with you. I was crying then and I'm crying now. He was a precious, perfect, not so little, round cheeked cherub. Abdul-Qadir is forever in my heart. I promise you that I will never... I could never forget him. <br /><br />xoxo<br />*Rach*Rachnkidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10511536304509973160noreply@blogger.com